The surrogacy agency terminated his involvement immediately. The contracts were redrawn with his name removed. Months later, a judge awarded me sole custody, citing his recorded intent to alienate me from my child. When I finally held my son in my arms, his tiny hand gripping my finger with fierce strength, I understood what Ethan never had: a child is not a weapon to be used in war, nor a prize to be won in court. He is simply love, and love does not keep folders. Continue reading…